Christie Matthews

The Most Meaningful Thanksgiving You Will Ever Have

The Most   Meaningful Thanksgiving You Will Ever Have
I am reposting from a blog I receive every day by an amazing motivator Jerry Del Colliano. Good advice I plan to take. Read on.  

Often it takes very   little to add real meaning to a family event and Thanksgiving is the time   when families come together. The person who toiled   preparing the traditional Thanksgiving turkey or the one responsible for the   get together is often overlooked and under appreciated.  But we can change that.

Thanksgiving also turns into a drama when some family members come together and they don’t really get along the rest of the year.  I know people who dread this holiday for   that reason and that is sad.

So, try a different path this year.

  • Toast the chef.   Before the meal begins be the one to raise your glass and in front of everyone gathered to express public appreciation for the work they did to make the meal possible.  Something like, “I’d like to recognize and thank mom for        working so hard to make this feast as delectable as it is.  Thank you, mom”.  Be prepared for teary eyes of gratitude in return.
  • Avoid drama.  Even if you’ve got drama kings and queens at the Thanksgiving celebration, vow to bite your tongue before letting anyone lure you into an argument, debate or hard feelings over any unresolved family matters.  It is neither the time nor the  place.  Save discussing these issues for private time.  People        looking for a fight often burn out when they realize they can’t light  your fire in front of other people and that’s a good thing.
  • Be a good listener.  Dale Carnegie always said if you want people to like you, ask them about themselves.  In a world where we all tend to compete for attention,        Thanksgiving is one day when you can shine by asking questions rather than talking about yourself.  You will be loved and appreciated in ways that are not possible when the focus is predominantly on you.

Thanksgiving is a wonderful opportunity to practice gratitude.  Some folks like to invite   a guest who is alone or not as fortunate to the family celebration. Others like to bring leftovers to those who may be unable to attend so that   they don’t feel forgotten.

In giving we receive the   benefits that come from food, family, parades and football games when we do things to add real meaning to the holiday.  Happy Thanksgiving – I   appreciate the thousands of you who start your day with me right here — Jerry

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